Every night, when you announce it’s bath time, your toddler throws a fit - sprinting away as if it’s a game. Despite gentle coaxing, they wail, and even once you finally get them in the tub, the crying doesn’t stop.
This scenario repeats daily and turns bath time into a dreaded ordeal for everyone involved. The evening routine feels like a battle, with your child putting up strong resistance.
The constant struggle wears both of you out.
Why This Happens
According to child development experts at Lovevery, bath time can feel overwhelming for toddlers because of the intense sensory experience. Even a slight change in water temperature or the echo and splashing sounds can make them uncomfortable.
Kids often worry about getting soap in their eyes, water in their ears, or even being sucked down the drain. That fear of the drain can be very real and scary to them, even though you know they’re safe.
Bath time also signals that bedtime is around the corner, which can make your toddler resist even more.
What Makes Bath Time Easier
Start by acknowledging your child’s feelings: “I can see you’re finding it tough with the bath. I’m right here beside you.” This helps your child feel understood.
Guide them through each step. For example, “I’m going to pour warm water on your back now.” Giving them a heads-up helps them feel less anxious.
Create a gentler atmosphere by lowering the lights and speaking in a soothing voice. Let your child touch the water outside the tub first, to get a sense of the temperature and texture before getting in.
Add fun by singing a song, getting a bit silly, or making funny sounds. Before the bath, let your child use washcloths to clean their toys - it’s a playful way to ease into bath time.
Also, think about trying different bath times to see what works best for your family.
Tips to Prevent Bath-Time Worries
Help your child become comfortable with water by setting up a fun water play station next to the tub. Use measuring spoons for scooping and add some bath soap for bubbles - it’s a relaxed way to get familiar with water.
Pretend it’s bath time while you play. Fill a small tub with bubbly water and a washcloth and wash baby dolls or toy animals together. Go through each step - washing, rinsing, and drying. Your child will learn the bath routine without any pressure.
Stick with a consistent bath routine. Doing things in the same order each time - singing a familiar song, using the same towel, following the same steps - helps create predictability and cuts down on anxiety.
Ease drain worries by showing your child clear proof. Let them leave the tub before unplugging it and explain, “See, even this toy is too big for the drain.” This shows your child they can’t go down the drain.
Remember, toddlers don’t need a bath every day. Bathing your child two to three times a week is enough. If bath time is a big struggle, you can always cut back.
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