You reach for their hand in the parking lot and they yank away and run toward the store entrance. The parking lot terrifies you but your toddler sees it as a playground, and you feel panicked every single trip to the store.
KidsandCars.org reports thousands of children are injured yearly in parking lots. Toddlers cannot recognize danger. They have no impulse control and poor judgment about boundaries.
Practice at home first. Walk around holding hands in safe spaces. Use the STAR method. S: Stop at the car. T: Touch the car until Mom says move. A: Attention on surroundings. R: Ready when parent gives permission. Make it a game at home. Call "red light" and practice stopping. Give your toddler a job. "You keep me safe by holding my hand." No second chances in real parking lots. Set the rule ahead of time. Run away once and you get carried.
Your toddler is learning. Parking lots require non-negotiable boundaries. Stay calm and consistent. Safety first.
Sources:
https://connectedfamilies.org/danger-obedience-and-teaching-kids-traffic-safety/
https://sweetnsourtoddlers.com/toddler-wont-hold-hands-6-clever-strategies-you-should-try/
https://www.safeintheseat.com/post/8-parking-lot-safety-tips-for-parents
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