Your toddler loses it at the grocery store, and it looks like yet another tantrum. But sometimes, there’s more going on underneath. Sensory overload can look just like a tantrum, yet it isn’t - it needs a different kind of response.
Why Sensory Overload Looks Like a Tantrum (But Isn't)
Sensory meltdowns hit hard when little kids face too much noise, bright lights, packed spaces, or rough textures. These outbursts don’t stop if you give in - unlike tantrums - because the real cause is overload, not demands.
That breakdown at the supermarket late in the afternoon? Or screaming because sock seams itch? These aren’t choices; they’re reactions to everything their senses have been juggling all day.
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How to Spot and Stop Sensory Meltdowns Before They Start
Watch for early warning signs: covering ears at loud sounds, squinting in bright lights, or rubbing skin at certain textures. Remove your child from the environment quickly and find quiet, dim spaces.
Skip busy stores during peak hours and pack noise-canceling headphones. After a meltdown, don't punish - your toddler needs comfort and time to regulate.
During the meltdown, keep words to a minimum. Too much talking can add more sensory input and make it harder for your toddler to calm down.
Over time, you’ll start to notice the difference between mild sensory stress and a full meltdown, which helps you respond sooner and more confidently.
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