Your toddler throws food, toys, and anything they grab. Your home feels like a danger zone.
Child development experts explain that toddlers throw objects to explore cause and effect, test boundaries, and express big emotions. Throwing is developmentally appropriate between 12 and 24 months.
Smart responses to throwing:
Remove the object calmly and say "Toys are not for throwing"
Offer alternatives: soft balls, bean bags, or crumpled paper
Create a designated throwing zone outside or in a playroom
Acknowledge feelings: "You feel frustrated"
Consistent, calm responses teach toddlers what belongs where. If your toddler throws a toy, remove it for the rest of the day without anger.
Redirect the throwing urge. Set up a basket and show your toddler how to toss soft items into it. This satisfies their need to throw while teaching appropriate outlets.
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